Aug 13, 2009

From The Desk of Another Eye...

This is in extension to my previous post. I wanted to say something more there itself, but just I have taken a chance to say it here. Please consider this.

I remember one of my B.Tech friend’s saying-
“Whatever may be the correct way of treating people, whatever may be the general rule of showing obedience to elders, whatever may be the best way to make friends and win people, you know, there is always certain pleasure in being what you are in actual ‘person’, apart from every thing that any kind of a personality development course teaches you”

May be it is...!!

Coming back to the reality shows, if you are a participant, you need to wish the judges and need to be obedient to them all the time, even though they speak about your performance ruthlessly, even though they hurt you and disrespect your hard work, to which you put your time leaving behind your other interests.

No one is going to accept a participant, if he/she acts little proudly, carelessly. If the participant is having a dislike towards doing such things which attracts the Junta and judges easily, still he/she is bound to do so. If one does not, then the effect would be at the cost of their endurance in the show. That is not only a participant’s problem, the problem is in the viewers also, who personally love to be what they want to be, but fail to accept other people if they try to be what they are.

If the show calls for a voting system, then the ball is in every one’s court. The participant’s fate is in every one’s hand, which may have not been the actual intention of keeping this voting system. The religion and more importantly the region feelings play their game at the cost of the participant’s work, future and emotions. Mainly, if he/she doesn’t look good, then it the end; He may be too good at his performance, but every thing looks small before the beauty phobia…How sad? After all, beauty can be changed over the night, if you have enough money, but what that allows you to change your attitude or talent so easily? It requires many a things to list down…!!

Of course, these shows are advantageous at some ends; and they are some what disadvantageous as well. But any way, as I said, pros and cons are there every where. It is up to us, what to learn and what not to. Every change is meant for a new beginning, and it is only we, who can turn changes in to our life styles. Hope, reality shows would educate people with the contemporary realities, which would be a good augur for the changing dimensions.

PS: Sorry for bothering you with my cut-posts. Please be kind…:)

19 comments:

Prasad Gutti said...

Hi...

ya really well said ...

There are somany pros and cons in everything. Also appreciation depends on everything, examples have been said by you.

Very well said, and shown your emotions hahahah... no problem ..

ok enjoy

--
Prasad

STEPHEN TEA said...

INDEED, AS SHAKESPEARE SAID,"TO THY OWN SELF BE TRUE..." THANKS FOR THE INFORMATION ABOUT REALITY SHOWS... I HAVE NEVER WATCHED ONE BUT HAVE BEEN CURIOUS ... STAY THE COURSE ... YOU ARE ONE GOOD EXPLORER ...

Rane (The Orchid with All Shades Pink) said...

very well said Pramoda.. i couldnt agree with you more.. you have an art of looking at things positively.. :) thank you!

Priya Joyce said...

very well said dear...

the one thing i'd like to say is the "best" of all the contestants doesn't win.
I've noticed this in all reality shows..many a least..

That's cos of region religion..ahhh watever..people forget to judge the contestants on the basis of their performance ..n rather do on all the other basis..tats bad..n unjust.
:|

Creativity!! said...

Very Much True Dear :D Specially, The religion and more importantly the region feelings play their game at the cost of the participant’s work, future and emotions.

People toss their minds Under The head, "RELIGION"

Very Well Penned Down :D Excellent :D Keep It Up :D All The Very Best Success For The Upcoming Posts :D

Sapphire said...

Agree with whATever you said - but I really hate it when people vote just because the contestant is from their region or of the same religion! It kills the fun out of the competition and actually encourages regionalism more than nationalism!

Ellen said...

Wonderful insights presented here by your readers. Great!

Shows like the 'American Idol' give vent to a person's desire to follow a dream. Whether it is to be rich with the prize money.. or become a famous and successful performer in singing or dance or acting.

The process is hard and grueling. But it certainly transforms the person into one of much greater strength, determination, persistence, and passion for his craft. In short, the whole experience makes a person come out so much better than his old version of self, win or lose. :-) That surely gets my vote lols!!

Pramoda Meduri said...

Hi Prasad,

Thanks alot..:)

Pramoda Meduri said...

Hai Stephen,

I'm so glad to see u here ..Thanks for ur view and ur time..

ANd thanks alot for ur appriciation mails..I cherish them for my life time..

Have a grt time

Pramoda Meduri said...

Hai Kajal,

Thank You Very Much..:)

Pramoda Meduri said...

Hi priya,

Thanks alot for ur words and ur time..

YEah, even i have seen man times that the best of all neve won ..:(..so sad, but hope to see the best from now onwards..

Pramoda Meduri said...

HI Sahana,

Thanks alot..

These religion and region feleings are out of immaturity..Lets hope for the best future..

Have a nice time

Pramoda Meduri said...

Sapphire,

Hats off to u for mentioning that these kind of feelings take over the nationalism..Very true..

Thank You.

Pramoda Meduri said...

HI Ellen, really wonderful insights have been put by my readers including u .. I thank u all..

**the whole experience makes a person come out so much better than his old version of self, win or lose. :-)

Clap..clap..wnderful ellen..

In india, we have a show called Indian idol, of course on the same lines of Americal Idol..its an interestig show, but u know ppl vote here many times based on the region feeling .. that hurts, truly hurts..

Thank You.

Have a happy week end with ur family.

Pramoda Meduri said...

Dear ALL,

Thanks alot for ur participation and for ur time and insights..

I hope to see more frm u..:)
Thank You.

VIJAY said...

Oh my God!! It can't go better than this. I was literally feeling the sense in my nerves as I read through this post. Very patriotic, emotional and all the more very thought provoking....
Kudos tou you Pramoda and keep up the same spirit towards our great country...

Pramoda Meduri said...

Hi Vijay,

Thank You very much .. i will take these words on behalf of the 'The proud Tricolour" post ... :)

hehee..

Happy independence day, belated ..:)

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Being Pramoda... said...

HI JOy,

sorry for the late reply...was just going thru the posts and found ur comments..Thank u soo m uchh...i can feel the joy in ur words and i'm glad for being the reasonm of it.

Thank You