Sep 1, 2009

To Understand A Person...

To understand a person,
It is not only required to see how he behaves with you;
But is also required to have an eye on how he behaves with others as well.

PS: Cheers to all of you, once again with a short post. I always like the time that I spend to form these short sentences. And I would love to know your views on the same. For your convenience, I have disabled the comments link in my previous post. Please do share your views on that one along with the reviews for this one, if you like to say any. Thank You!!

40 comments:

Prasad Gutti said...

Hi Pramoda..

Nice quote ...

It is absolutely true, behaving with every body should be unique and important to him as well as to his surrounders. Because it shows the stability in you and gives a good name too. If a person believing in you means he is sacrificing something from his innerness. So dont change yourself when behaving with others.

But also it is necessary to behave differently with different people according to them. Because it will be very useful to you sometimes inorder to rescue yourself from enemies as well.

Apart from this, behaviour will be dependent on time, because if your time is not good, your behaviour wont help you to get rescue yourself.


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Prasad

Prasad Gutti said...

Now .. coming to the previous post.

I didnt get "Who is She ? "

May be I beleive it is you yourself saying that you have got loads of work to you to speak yourself right?

But A good quote dispersed from you mind is ...

I can never get the work which I can not do – So, I can do it and I will do it

Yes ofcourse, there is nothing difficult in this world to do, but it is our mind decides whether it is hard or soft to do it. If you yourself think that you solve your problem, you can do it. Otherwise nobody can!!!

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Prasad

The Idle Brain said...

Not sure.... Do you have any quotes to help understand oneself? I badly need one.

Sorry for the long break.. Am back again!

Priya Joyce said...

oh yes yes very true..that reely matters ...
nice one ter :):)

Creativity!! said...

Hi Dear, All The Very Best Success Dear. Hope You Have Got Heavy Work Load :D But, U Can DO It & U Will Do It :D

Its True That, Sometyms Behave differently :D Excellent Description :) Take Care :D

Bye :D

Vyshu said...

Very well said Prams..

Yepp..Understanding matters ..Its safe keeping an eye..without judging !!

and the previous post is inspiring..!

Wish you all the Success Dear

for u..from me said...

heyy..vry inspiring thought..yes, i firmly agree wid this..a person's behaviour wid every1 around can only make us judge his nature,his being and make us to understand him better rather than just seeing how he behaves jus wid u...
nd ya ur other post, wot i culd conclude from it is dat u're trying to say, dat u can do whatever wrk is being given, dre's nothing to say no for..is it u wanna convey? if so..den, ya luv ur spirit..dats how one shuld be..
Cheers..!!!

JOY"D"JODY said...

PRAMODA, HELLO MY FRIEND,
I SIMPLY LOVE YOUR POST TODAY.
YOU WRITE VERY WELL AND IT DOES EMPOWER ME, I LOVE THAT. AGAIN PLEASE KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK. HEY I SIGNED ON TO BE A FOLLOWER, COOL UH?
HAVE A WONDERFUL, WONDERFUL SEPTEMBER
YOUR FRIEND,
JOYJODY

Diana said...

If more people followed "To understand a person", there would be less break-ups and divorces.

“I can never get the work which I can not do – So, I can do it and I will do it” reminds me of the saying " God doesn't give us more than we can handle".

Love Di

STEPHEN TEA said...

ANOTHER FINE AND INSIGHTFUL BIT FROM A SPLENDID YOUNG LADY. STAY THE COURSE. MAY YOUR ANGEL'S FEATHERS TICKLE YOU TO LAUGHTER WHEN YOU ARE FEELING DOWN. UNCLE OLD BONES ...

deeps said...

so, a short comment as well

maybe loving that person is the best trick!!

Yellow Tulip said...

short and sweet...soo true dear..but sometimes even tat is jus not enough:)...i think..:)

scarlet pimpernel said...

but
i have a thousand faces to show thousand people

Ellen said...

Hi Pramoda,

A person is multi-faceted in character and personality being so many different things to so many different people. And yet that may not be a guarantee of his true self. Because sometimes the better gauge of the person's character is to see what he does when nobody is around or looking.

But since we can't really know a person that well as his inner self is a very private world, then at best we try to appraise the person through the way or manner he conducts himself publicly. It is wise, as a hindsight, to leave room for some bit of surprise that may reveal itself at some point in time. Then.....only then will true understanding of that person transpire. If that occurs we must remember to withhold judgment of any kind because we are all so much the same --- in having two worlds: our inner sanctum and our outer world of sharing and connectivity with others. It is neither good or bad. It is what it is --- human.

Have a blessed week.
Blessings to you and your family.

Ellen

Jack said...

Pramoda,

Read both the posts. Previous one -that is the spirit. I always say that a woman can do wonders once she decides to take up any task. This one, very true saying. Your short posts are with deep meaning and refreshing.

Take care

pinkZz said...

hey.. good one..!
n yeah i am vedshree..!

KParthasarathi said...

I am in agreement with Ellen.

Pramoda Meduri said...

Hi Prasad,

**It is absolutely true, behaving with every body should be unique and important to him as well as to his surrounders. Because it shows the stability in you and gives a good name too.

Hey, i dont think so, no one can behave uniqly with every one..at least for me, it is absolutely difficult to do so. EVen if we behave in a similar mannr with every one, we are not giving th erespect, i mean no two deserves the same respect in this universe, as no two can be similar in doings..

And yeah, i agree that we need to bahave according to our will and wish.

manivannan said...

To understand a person, I think, we should know ourselves first :-)

Pramoda Meduri said...

HI Prasad,

Thank you for sharing ur view..Yeah, we need to think what we have to do and we need to receive every work properlyy..Soo well said..Thank You soo much..:)

Pramoda Meduri said...

Hi Valliiiii....

Welcome back dear...:) I'm soo happy to see u here, once again..:)

Keep coming and do express ur thoughts in ur blog .. :)

Prams

Pramoda Meduri said...

HI Praiya,

Thanks alottt..:)

Pramoda Meduri said...

Hey Sahana,

Thanks alotttt..:)..:)

all the best to you too..have a grt time

Pramoda Meduri said...

HI Sudha,

Thanks for ur words and wishes dear..They mean alot to me..:)

Pramoda Meduri said...

Hi Madhu,

yeah, u have given a very good insight of you and thanks for ur lovely comments...:)

Pramoda Meduri said...

Hello Joy,

Thanks alottt for ur presence here..:) ..I value it. and thanks for ur precious comments..:)

WIsh u too a wonderful september..:)

Pramoda

Pramoda Meduri said...

Hi Diana...

Thanks alot for the lovelyy words..:)

Pramoda Meduri said...

@ Stephen

Hi uncle,

Thanks alottt for ur comments and also for ur blessings..:)

Pramoda Meduri said...

Hey deeps,

Thanks alot and well said..:)

Pramoda Meduri said...

Yellow tulip,

Hey...thank you and yeah, some times some more is required..:)

Pramoda Meduri said...

@ Scarlet pimpernel

Yeah, it is the truth finally, well said. And the beauty lies in the way you understand others who are just like you, Having thousands of different faces..:)

PS: I'm planning a post on this, it will be my next one after the "Fast forward"..:)

Pramoda Meduri said...

HI Ellen,

**sometimes the better gauge of the person's character is to see what he does when nobody is around or looking.

Soo well said, i agree with u completely.

And yeah, it is what us a human..:)

Thanks for this good insight Ellen..:)

Have a great time..:)

Pramoda Meduri said...

Hello Jack,

Thanks alott..:)

**Your short posts are with deep meaning and refreshing.

I'm soo greatful to u..:)

Pramoda Meduri said...

@ PInkzz..

Hey Vedshee..

Very good name. Thanks for ur visit..and please keep coming:)

Pramoda Meduri said...

Prathasarathi uncle,

Thanks alot..:)

Pramoda Meduri said...

Hi Manivannan,

haha..yaaa...obviouslyy ..:)

Have a nice time.

Ekam said...

Very true:)

Being Pramoda... said...

Thank You Ekam..

Snow White said...

both posts are very good dear :)
previous post is very inspiring..hope i learn something out of it :) :)

Understanding a person is really difficult..and these lines say it beautifully in just few words :)

Being Pramoda... said...

@ Snow white

Hey..Thanks alott and am glad that i could have contributed for you.:)

Thanks for the lovely comments..:)