Nov 10, 2009

The Biggest Gain!!

The biggest gain of one’s life resides in attaining the capabilitiy of preparing himself to challenge the biggest loss of his own life.

Gain It;
Celebrate it;
And Be An Inspiration.

50 comments:

Rohini Prasanth said...

Hmm.. what would you say the biggest loss is? If you view life as a whole I think, it would always be death. Isn't it a bit tough to prepare for death and celebrate it...

But, viewed on more realistic basis.. our concept of biggest loss keeps changing. Sometimes its death of a near and dear one.. sometimes something we wanted to achieve that we couldn't..more often it is the loss of a friendship.

I admire the essence of these words though Pramoda. Life is a roller coaster ride, and there will always be ups and downs. One should not get carried away by joy or sorrow. Take both with a pinch of salt! :)

thought-provoking words! Your posts are like my daily manna.. :D

Mads... said...

heyy..as usual there's 1 more to add in yr thought list..luvlyy thought dear..the biggest gain in life is to prepare for biggest loss..nice said..:)keep going dear..:)

Tranquility Speaks said...

Whatever life's biggest loss is, life moves on teaching you in the process of how to be strong everyday :-) Wonderful post Pramoda :-) Where do you get such beautiful pictures from! :D

Prasad Gutti said...

Hi Prams...

Nice post, really it is a best achievement in ones life if he attains effort to the loss obtained to him inorder to get success in it.

But you know, it is not possible for all the things. Some may not be able to gain even if you put much effort. May be he should have some luck atleast to attain it in his second life. hahahahah

But my suggession to this post is, it would be good if you put the title as "The Gain" instead of "The Biggest Gain". But it is also nice... haahah am I bit sensitive hear... dont worry I am always happy dear....

--
Prasad

Priya Joyce said...

who has lost the most gains the most oo...
experiences make us...

Priya Joyce said...

typo..tat ws too*

Anonymous said...

Feel the pain wn d success comes its like im top of the world thus the magic of effort gm

Riya Rocks said...

Situations makes ur prepare for accepting the challenges of Life. I am agreed wid u we should Gain the experinces from tough times of our Life, Inspired from them and should celebrate them for teaching a valuable lesson of Life :)

Keep Rocking

pankhu said...

what loss and gain you are talking about?

More or less its a preaching..!!

Ria said...
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Ria said...

wow!!that was nice short and sweet!! :)

Raksha Raman said...

Like they say, "A good piece of sculpture is possible only when the stone receives many a hits to make it look perfect" So loss in a way makes people more hell bent to succeed!

Suree said...

:)

Sid 'Ravan' Kabe said...

nice... hey u can create a facebook page for yourself and update such cute quotes there..

Creativity!! said...

Beautiful & Very Well Said Dear :) :)

chocolate lover said...

sweet and so true :)

WELCOME TO MY WORLD OF POETRY: said...

The biggest loss I have encountered is the loss of my mother quickly followed 2 months later by my husband, It was mind blowing. I felt totally alone though I have 3 children they at the time couldn't compensate my losses though now with 4 grandchildren also 2 of the children are as close as anyone can be. One has to accept loss before a new sort of life can begin,
It took me a long while but I got there, and thank God I have such happy memories of them both.

Yvonne.

Sunakshi said...

Very true. :)

Jack said...

Pramoda,

When one loses something close to him or her OR does not get what he or she is striving for, his or her capability to withstand that is what seperates strong ones from weaklings.

Take care

KParthasarathi said...

I agree with Jack.It is the ability to face the loss with fortitude and strong mind that is important.

Readers Dais said...

Hi! Pramoda,
Truly said,its difficult to succeed if one doesnt gain this capability,but there are instances where peoples defenition on loss differ.This capability makes us believe that there is no loss and thus we move on & on to success...
Nice thought :)

Hemanth Potluri said...

beautifully said :)..

urs..hemu..

Dhanya said...

True! :)

The Holy Lama said...

What is a loss to one who lost too much in too short a time with no time to prepare?

Being Pramoda... said...

Hi Rohini,

thank you for sharing ur views dear.. as u said the priorities of loss changed frm prson to person, and time to time...

Agreed..and thank you soo much ..)

Being Pramoda... said...

hai madhu,

thank you soo much ..:)

Being Pramoda... said...

hi Tranquility,

thak you.. credit to this picture goes to the forwarded mail frm which i downloaded this one..hehe

Being Pramoda... said...

HI Prasad,

thank youu soo much .. L) ..the gain would be better ..well thanks for the sugesstion..and have nice time ..

Being Pramoda... said...

Hi priya,

well said..:) Thanks dear..

Being Pramoda... said...

hey priya, its k .. :) understood..

Being Pramoda... said...

Hey Zanskarite,

Thank you soo much ..)

Being Pramoda... said...

hi Riya,

that was soo cool comment..thank you..

Being Pramoda... said...

pankhu,

welcome to my blog..

gain and loss differs frm person to person..You are the best person to decide what u feel as ur gain and ur loss..so i say nothing..:)

Being Pramoda... said...

hi Ria,

Thank youu..:)

Being Pramoda... said...

hi Raksha,

Wel said yaar..Thank youuu

Being Pramoda... said...

hi Suresh..thank you..keep smiling..

Being Pramoda... said...

hey sid, thanks for that sweet advice..will try..

Being Pramoda... said...

hi sahana,

thanks gal..:)

Being Pramoda... said...

hi CHaco lover,

thank youu sis ..:)

Being Pramoda... said...

hi Yvonne..thats soo sweet of u to see sharing ur part..Am soo glad abt ur kindness.. thank you..

Being Pramoda... said...

hi SUnakshi,

thank you..

Being Pramoda... said...

jack uncle,

well said and thank youu soo much ..

Being Pramoda... said...

hi Partha uncle.,

well well..am soo glad for that..hws delhi ?

Being Pramoda... said...

hi RD..yeah..it makes people successful too..:) Thank youuu

Being Pramoda... said...

hi Hemanth,

where have u been .. ??
Thanks for this..plx keep coming..

Being Pramoda... said...

hi dhanya,

thank you gal..:)

Being Pramoda... said...

@ Holy Lama,

i congratulate you one giving this qsn to me..well i haave not given a thouught frm that corner while taking this subject..

yaa..in life, we live to learn and we must learn to fact the losses..Its inevitable..:)

Thank You soo much once again for the thought provking comment..Hats off to you..

Amity Me said...

this is again one though that's hard to come by...

we always say that failures are our biggest fears in life but here you are telling again that if we're strong enough to face a loss, that's our biggest gain!

I believe in you! Another words of wisdom for me this morning...:)

good morning Prams!

anupama said...

Dear Prams,
Good Morning!
A loss is always a loss!no one can prepare himself or herself for the same.time may heal the wounds;but scars are very deep n painful.
prayers and strong belief in GOD help one to gain the peace of mind and to move on...........
the pains are hidden and the masks are worn.life is a mixture of ups and downs.we can relate and reach out the people who need a shoulder to lean on.that is the way to get strength,feeling others' pains.
wishing you a wonderful weekend,
sasneham,
ANU

Being Pramoda... said...

Hi Anu,

Thanks for being here with ur ever intersting commetd dear..i love to read ur comments..:) Thank you ...have a happy week end..