Nov 20, 2009

In The Professional/Corporate World...

Anything can be said and listened; But in the professional/corporate world…

The best way to say something is to add guts to it, wherein you can say the same words about any person, irrespective of his presence, of his social/professional status, and of his requirement to you.

The best way to listen something is to ignore the words which are said only to you, as the speaker can never dare to repeat them before the big boss.
PS: The same strategy can be applicable not only to the professional life, but also to the personal life. But my intension of this post is specifically about professional area.

60 comments:

Destiny's child... said...

Hmm..something to ponder upon...i didn't quite get what you meant about the listenign part though...
About the saying part...things should be clear cut between the colleagues, you are right. Diplomacy works only with clients. Am I right? ;)

deeps said...

i think the punch line comes at the PS ...
there you go ...

Amity Me said...

oh, you really work in a corporate world my dear!

are you a supervisor? just askin Prams!

this really is good advise for us office workers, corporate or government workers!

nice post dear!

hugs for this!

Hemanth Potluri said...

nice message for the corporate world people...:)..

urs..hemu..

Mads... said...

heya..a gud piece of advice for us dear..vry informational post indeed..thnx a lot 4 sharing..:)

Priya Joyce said...

welll it's all over now..the basic apathy...but u've brot out some gud in it..
well tats why we say ter's a difference in seeing the glass half full :):)

HaRy!! said...

Hey Prams...quite agree with yu on yur PS...hmm gave a thought and yep!

Anya said...

Great message and so the true !!!
(@^.^@)

WELCOME TO MY WORLD OF POETRY: said...

This has given me something to think about to day.
Great post.

Yvonne.

chocolate lover said...

so true :)

Being Pramoda... said...

@ Destiny's child..

yeah..u r correct..:) Between coulegaues at least it should be clear in a way. Nice to see u here..:)

Have a nice time..

Being Pramoda... said...

Hi Deeps,

Thank you so much...:)

Being Pramoda... said...

Hi Amity,

yeah..that shd be our way..

am not a supervisor.. am a technical person..:) I'm wrking in Tata Motors..:) done my Mtech in Power electronics..:)

Nice to share this with u..

Being Pramoda... said...

HI Hemanth,

thank you..:)

Being Pramoda... said...

hi Madhu,

Thanks alott dear..:)

Being Pramoda... said...

HI Priya,

thats a sweet one.. thanks alottt...:) enjoy..

Being Pramoda... said...

Hi Hary,

Thanks fr that..:)

Being Pramoda... said...

Hi Anya,

thank you dear..:)

Being Pramoda... said...

Hi Yvonne..

thats glad ...:) Thank you..

Being Pramoda... said...

Hi CHaco lover,

thank yu ...:)

Ravan said...

hmmm.... interesting...:D

The Holy Lama said...

Let me deduce...you have a colleague who acts cocky but chickens out... And you had enough, right?

Diana said...

Hi Prams!
Smart thinking, we all should remember this! Thank you.
Love Di

Being Pramoda... said...

Hi Ravan,

Thank You very much..welcome here..:)

Being Pramoda... said...

@ Holy Lama

:)..Yeah..I had enough..:) Special Thanks for this..:)

Being Pramoda... said...

Hi Diana,

Thank Yu soo much ..:)

rimz said...

very nice..:)

an awards waiting for u in my blog..:),check it..:)

The Idle Brain said...

Hmm.. corporate strategist :O
Have you started training your colleagues?

anupama said...

Dear Prams,
Good Evening!
Good advice!from experiences?struggling to keep the balance between work load n colleagues!and a smile is expected!the normal reminder is,the door is opened;anytime you can leave the job and be free!:)
wishing you a happy weekend!
Sasneham,
Anu

sinnlighet said...

Soon, soon I go back to India. I wish I had been born in this great warm embrace!

By the way....yes yes yes your blog is filled up with wonderful inspiring.

Here is a footprint from me in Sweden!

Peace & Love

Agneta

Jack said...

Pramoda,

Hope Sachin reads your previous post and not Bal Thackrey. Factual statement in this post.

Take care

Being Pramoda... said...

Hi Rimz,

Thank Youu so much girl..:) Soo nice of u ..:)

Being Pramoda... said...

@ Idle brain

hi Valli,
hheh...nice to see u here after long time..:)

Not yet re..heheh:)

Being Pramoda... said...

hi anu,

thanks fr the advice..:)

but i have no intesions to leave my job. because firstly i love the company i'm wrking in, and secondly, these kind of ppl exist everywhere. if i start changing jobs because of some ppl, i will have no identity at the end of the day..:) i believe i can face them boldly..:)

Thank You dear..

Being Pramoda... said...

@ sinnlighet

hey hey...welcome here and thank u soo much fr ur ward wishes and inspiring comment..:)

Pls keep coming here and make me happy..:)

Have a nice time..:)

Being Pramoda... said...

hi Jack uncle,

i wish both sachin and bal thakery would read my post..:)

Thank you soo much ..:)

Jaunty anima said...

Good one gal..!!:)

Cursed♪♫ said...

Thanks for your comment.I'm glad you liked my poem.Yea, my mum's cool :D I just fail to understand her.
I'm sorry I've been away. My exams were going on and they sucked!
Did you watch 2012??
Anyways, take Care Di!
Tada!!
♥♥

Being Pramoda... said...

Hi Jaunty,

thank you soo much yar..:)

Being Pramoda... said...

@ Cursed,

hey gal...welcome back..:)

so hw did u do in ur exams..all the best fr the result..:)

i have just seen 2012, an hour back..:) It was awesome..

Dhiman said...

You are right but the atmosphere in organization should be conducive to be open and direct that is professional... otherwise things might turn out different way...
Nevertheless good thought, straight out of experience :D

Creativity!! said...

Dear, Very Well Said :) :)

Vishwanath Seshadri said...

Nice to see you sharing your work place learnings with all of us.. I am visiting your blog spot after a few days and happy to read all your posts which shows the same spirit and zest as always..

Cheers

Ria said...

well said gurl!! :)

Anonymous said...

Will Sachin score a century tomo and completing 13000 runs im hoping so 2nd test first day india on top

Being Pramoda... said...

Hi Dhiman,

yeah..the atmosphere shall be good so that everyone can move freely..agreed..Thank you soo much ..:)

Being Pramoda... said...

Hi Sahana dear..thanks re..:)

Being Pramoda... said...

Hi Vish, its my pleasure to share these with u all..and thanks for coming back and reading them..:)

Have nice time..

Being Pramoda... said...

hi Ria,

thank youu :) ...

Being Pramoda... said...

Hi Zanskarite,

sachin may hit his century..:) but yaa india on top ..lets see today's play ..all the best to them..and thank you for you. :)

Readers Dais said...

Yes Pramoda,

Truly said, but the sad part of the fact is that THE SAME WORDS may not be always true, especially in this corporate world.

Prasad Gutti said...

Hi pramoda,

I didnt recognise in what sence you have told, but its true that

"The best way to listen something is to ignore the words which are said only to you, as the speaker can never dare to repeat them before the big boss"

Nice one.. :)

--
Prasad

hemanth said...

A practical saying to practice.. :)
Thanks.

hemanth said...

A practical saying to practice.. :)
Thanks.

Vittaldas Prabhu said...

How very true! I particularly liked the statement, and I quote, "The best way to listen something is to ignore the words which are said only to you, as the speaker can never dare to repeat them before the big boss." Very thoughtful.

I am sorry, I am a little delayed looking at your posts. But I am back for good. Following you now. :-)

Being Pramoda... said...

hi RD
yeah.. thats the problem..:)

Thank You.

Being Pramoda... said...

Hi Prasad thank you..)

Being Pramoda... said...

Hi Hemanth thanks..would love to see u practicing it ..:) all the best bro..:)

Being Pramoda... said...

Hi Prabhu welcome back..:)

Thank you soo much .. am glad that u liked it..:)

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