Aug 8, 2010

My Parents' Say...

For all the problems of mine that I express to my parents, they always have only one say…


“Problem will keep on trouble you until and unless you accept it as a challenge and work it out. If you go away from a problem, you may be out of it for quite a sometime. But, sooner, another problem starts troubling you. If you make the habit of going away from problems, or avoiding any problem to come, ultimately you will forget to live life and just remain leading it all the time. For example, if you have some problem in your present hostel and you decide to change the hostel, what’s the guarantee that you will not face any problem over there? You are not sure of many things that come in your way, if you change your way. Better be there and face it. Work it out. People remain the same everywhere; their mentalities remain the same; if you avoid a particular mentality from troubling you, another person stands tall to make you feel the trouble. Take it as a challenge and work it out. Be confident and become successful”


PS: The words may not be the same, but the meaning remain the same every time they encourage me. My mom takes the lead role in conveying it to me and my dad takes the lead role in preparing her to be able to do so.


No words for them.

34 comments:

lakshman said...

Pramoda,

Hats off to your parents. Well said!
Problems are like a pencil sharpener.
Good luck!

lakshman

Anonymous said...

very well said!
i really like the way you expressed

-zanskarite

welcome to my world of poetry said...

Wonderful post, enjoyed the read.

Yvonne.

KParthasarathi said...

Nice one.Take the bull by the horns,instead of running away so to say

A New Beginning said...

I agree with them totally..parents are our guarding angels :) thanks for sharing such a valid thought!

Ria said...

Aah so good!! Well written dear.

Ellen said...

Wonderful wise words from your mother. :-)

By the way, here's the link to the song "Perhaps Love" by John Denver, per your request. :-) Enjoy!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=E8qwZUT4Poo

sleeping beauty said...

nice thoughts.be confident and fight with problem .ya they won't go but you will become strong.

Sourav said...

Every word from parents is worth 10 years of lessons we might learn in school and college. Well, problems dealt with as soon as they arrive, leaves us prepare for the next in our life! Life is unpredictable, we should be prepared! :)

Feel so nice to come back to your page to read such a wonderful post! Keep writing! :)

Diana said...

Your parents gave you very good advice Prams. I would like to add that when my children are overwhelmed with a problem, I also tell them to not think about it for a few days. Sometimes the answers come on there own as well.
Love Di ♥

Bikramjit said...

Yes as others have said hats off to your parents.. what they say is right.. you got to stand tall and face it ..

sometimes you will be pushed to the floor sometimes you will be praised but a person is who takes both on the chin and end of the day stands tall...
life is full of problems when you are studying its other students .. when in job its colelgues bosses, clients .. sometimes friends .. problems dont finish they multiply rather .. so one has to be strong and confident and have one word BRING IT ON... and those people seldom looooose :) all the best

deeps said...

advicing others is a pretty cool job ha?
though there is sense what they say, and the things they maybe stuff we already know or have told others when they were trouble...

Jack said...

Pramoda,

Read all the pending posts. Now I know what makes you so strong and hard working. Credit goes to your parents. How I wish all parents are like that!

Take care

anupama said...

Dear Prams,
Good Morning!
Problems help us to grow stronger;we can't run away to more problems without solving the earlier one.
Your parents have moulded you very well with right values and good advices.Convey my love and respects.
Wishing you a beautiful day ahead,
Sasneham,
Anu

Sabi Sunshine said...

Lovely thoughts from your parents. Have a courage to face the challenge in your life, that's how you move forward in life.

Love
Sunshine

iamyuva said...

thatz called wisdom..

Sabi Sunshine said...

Hey well written and expressed... I really hate to have stress in life but try to solve the situation rather thn getting stressed out!

Missing you!

Love
Sunshine

Being Pramoda... said...

Hi lakshman babai.. thanks so much.:) hope u r doing good..:)

Being Pramoda... said...

Hi Zanskarite, thank you..:)

Being Pramoda... said...

Hey Yvonne. thanks so much dear..

Being Pramoda... said...

HI Partha uncle, thank you very much..:)

Being Pramoda... said...

Hi Sana, my pleasure re..:)

Being Pramoda... said...

Hai Ria.. thank you..:)

Being Pramoda... said...

Wonderful ellen.. thanks so much..:) will check..

Being Pramoda... said...

Hi Sleeping beauty, thanks yaa..:) so perfect

Being Pramoda... said...

Hi Sourav, welcome back and always nice to have you here..:)

Being Pramoda... said...

Hi Diana, thanks dear.. many thanks

Being Pramoda... said...

Hi Bikramjit, thats so well said.. thanks a bunch buddy..

Being Pramoda... said...

Hi Deeps.. yeah i think so..:)

Being Pramoda... said...

Hi Jack uncle, thanks a lot..:)

Being Pramoda... said...

Hi Anu, will do it dear>.:) thank you soo much

Being Pramoda... said...

Hi Sabi.. thanks gal..

Being Pramoda... said...

Hi Yuva.. its right..:)

Being Pramoda... said...

Hi Sabi.. thanks once again..