Hi Friends, I’ve been missing your blogs as well as mine very badly these days. Not that I’ve been busy doing something, rather I’ve been busy thinking some or the other thing, all the time! Interestingly, I’m trying hard to think nothing on thins weekend, but it is already proving very hard on the other hand, as if it is almost impossible. Again, impossible is nothing, to be positive, and yeah, being positive fetches you everything, if I’m not wrong!
All in all, once again the sudden down pouring has inspired me to start writing this post. I hope I will get succeeded in expressing myself.
No doubt, the week so far has been the toughest week for me. Only I know why so. Many, in fact too many take homes have come in my way this week. I thought of consolidating all those for you and obviously for me, as always.
“For others’ mistakes, why do you get angrier and punish yourself?”
My mom told me this line which she had read somewhere, “For others’ mistakes, why do you get angrier and punish yourself?” and as we all know, our angry is our biggest enemy. My first response after reading the line was “who wrote this?” Then again, immediately, it appeared in my mind that I too write many such lines in my blog which seem so correct on first read but seem extremely ideal to practice!
But, the fellow who had written this must have identified this fact by seeing his fellow mates who were angry, and I bet he would not have written this line out of his own angry, for sure, unless he is so controlled!
However, this line made me think aloud. Thanks to my mom for sharing this with me. I applied this to my day to day happenings. The result was so fruitful. I recommend this to all of you as well.
Identify the problem you are facing.
Identify who has done this for you.
Identify who is the loser if you sit sad.
And then, I’m sure you identify yourself,
In all energy to bounce back like never before.
“When you are up, people know who you are. When you are down, you know who your people are”
This was an SMS I got long back. It proved very right many a times in my life so far and once again it is showing it’s own power. For many, I’m appearing down now and this is the right time for me to identify the people who will be with me forever. Not what’s happening in my life is the biggest failure of mine, but losing the people who are with me now, will be so.
I’ve already come across the people who’ve laughed at me on my face and on my back. It is undoubtedly annoying but I’m happy that they have made it easy for me to understand their mentalities. Any way, I’m not such an idiot to spoil my life by myself. I know how to build it from here on.
“I’m all alone”
Very short and equally true! As I move on with my life, I’m getting realized that I’m all alone and need to face anything and everything alone only. I should not expect anyone to get worried for me. Expecting so is so practical but at the same time its very wrong too. Get along with the happenings alone and you will have ended up in having the satisfaction of facing everything all alone and successfully too. Everything will pass on, no doubt, but how you get along with everything is very important not for anyone else but for you.
What you learn from the situations is important not for anyone else but for you and your people. I’ve identified this fact with my heart, now.
Nevertheless, I’m enjoying living this phase of my life. Who so ever may be the culprit, I’ve decided not to be a victim so easily. As long as I’m like this, I’ll stay happy and will make my people happy. It should not be so easy for anyone to kill your spirit. If it is so, you are nothing at the end of the day!
Face anything and everything with a hope.
Not any minute can be lived again, and
Definitely not any effort goes in vain.
Every learning keeps you successful.
Every phase of life must be lived by you.
See you all. Cheers!