Aug 28, 2010

A week of invaluable take homes…!

Hi Friends, I’ve been missing your blogs as well as mine very badly these days. Not that I’ve been busy doing something, rather I’ve been busy thinking some or the other thing, all the time! Interestingly, I’m trying hard to think nothing on thins weekend, but it is already proving very hard on the other hand, as if it is almost impossible. Again, impossible is nothing, to be positive, and yeah, being positive fetches you everything, if I’m not wrong!


All in all, once again the sudden down pouring has inspired me to start writing this post. I hope I will get succeeded in expressing myself.


No doubt, the week so far has been the toughest week for me. Only I know why so. Many, in fact too many take homes have come in my way this week. I thought of consolidating all those for you and obviously for me, as always.


“For others’ mistakes, why do you get angrier and punish yourself?”


My mom told me this line which she had read somewhere, “For others’ mistakes, why do you get angrier and punish yourself?” and as we all know, our angry is our biggest enemy. My first response after reading the line was “who wrote this?” Then again, immediately, it appeared in my mind that I too write many such lines in my blog which seem so correct on first read but seem extremely ideal to practice!


But, the fellow who had written this must have identified this fact by seeing his fellow mates who were angry, and I bet he would not have written this line out of his own angry, for sure, unless he is so controlled!


However, this line made me think aloud. Thanks to my mom for sharing this with me. I applied this to my day to day happenings. The result was so fruitful. I recommend this to all of you as well.


Identify the problem you are facing.

Identify who has done this for you.

Identify who is the loser if you sit sad.

And then, I’m sure you identify yourself,

In all energy to bounce back like never before.


“When you are up, people know who you are. When you are down, you know who your people are”


This was an SMS I got long back. It proved very right many a times in my life so far and once again it is showing it’s own power. For many, I’m appearing down now and this is the right time for me to identify the people who will be with me forever. Not what’s happening in my life is the biggest failure of mine, but losing the people who are with me now, will be so.


I’ve already come across the people who’ve laughed at me on my face and on my back. It is undoubtedly annoying but I’m happy that they have made it easy for me to understand their mentalities. Any way, I’m not such an idiot to spoil my life by myself. I know how to build it from here on.


“I’m all alone”


Very short and equally true! As I move on with my life, I’m getting realized that I’m all alone and need to face anything and everything alone only. I should not expect anyone to get worried for me. Expecting so is so practical but at the same time its very wrong too. Get along with the happenings alone and you will have ended up in having the satisfaction of facing everything all alone and successfully too. Everything will pass on, no doubt, but how you get along with everything is very important not for anyone else but for you.


What you learn from the situations is important not for anyone else but for you and your people. I’ve identified this fact with my heart, now.


Nevertheless, I’m enjoying living this phase of my life. Who so ever may be the culprit, I’ve decided not to be a victim so easily. As long as I’m like this, I’ll stay happy and will make my people happy. It should not be so easy for anyone to kill your spirit. If it is so, you are nothing at the end of the day!



Face anything and everything with a hope.

Not any minute can be lived again, and

Definitely not any effort goes in vain.

Every learning keeps you successful.

Every phase of life must be lived by you.


See you all. Cheers!


26 comments:

sivaprasad nidamanuri said...

yes ur attitude is write Whenever you are down, you know who your people are

welcome to my world of poetry said...

Your attitude is wonderful, there are so many different phrases in our lives and we wonder how we will get through them bey we do,

Have a lovley week-end.

Yvonne,

Creativity!! said...

Very Much True Dear :) :) This Saying Is Quite Inspiring & True "“For others’ mistakes, why do you get angrier and punish yourself?”

Convey My Special Thanks To Aunt :) :) Thanks A Lot For Sharing Dear :) :)

Takecare.

Ria said...

Such a well written post. Hope u r fine now, and fever has left u for good.

KParthasarathi said...

Thanks for the excellent tips

Diana said...

When it comes right down to it Prams, we are all "alone". You know, "United we stand, divided we fall". You are such a smart woman and I so enjoy your take homes!
Love Di ♥

Ms.Meduri said...

hey di...its gonna be a long comment for this wonderful post...so plzz bear wid me..:)..!!!

first of all wonderful take home..liked them ...my kind...or may be our kind..!!!

"For other's mistakes, why do you get angrier nad punish yourself?"

wow this is right...interesting and the contra happens al the while in life...!!! may be bcoz we care for them alot and may be wen we realize that they dont do so...we are hurt...n may be its human psychology..!!! but nevertheless world is changin...we now understand better who people are and who OUR people are..!!

and yes, i know who my people are...and so happy wid n widout them...!!

"I AM ALL ALONE"

wow..this is a statement that holds true in my life too..not just literally but logically too..!! Look di...it is us who is gonna live our life...whatever happens in life it is us who are gonna face the consequences...and it is us who are gonna either njoy or sit sad in life...n its our choice dat makes da difference..!!!

people say...if u enjoy today n not work hard ur tomorow shall be difficult..!!!

but i would say...dont you think the time we are planning for the future is the time we are actually supposed to live?? i think this is life...kal ke brien main kisko pata?? lets live today and take the responsibility of everything happening in life by yourself and we shall be very hapy..!!!

at the end one take home from me..!!

"NEVER EXPECT ANYTHING FROM ANYONE, NOT EVEN FROM THE BEST OF YOU BUDDIES...ELSE YOU MAY NOT BE ABLE TO ACCEPT THEM..!!!"

bye di love you..!!!
yours
Ms.Meduri

nivedita said...

Beautiful quotes and inspiring thoughts.
I too believe in the same, why to loose your energy by getting angry on other's mistakes?

Being Pramoda... said...

Hi Sivaprasad.... thank you so much..

Being Pramoda... said...

Hi Yvonne..thank you.

Being Pramoda... said...

Hi Sahana, thanks gal..:) will convey..

Being Pramoda... said...

Hi Ria..am fine now..:)

Being Pramoda... said...

Hi Partha uncle, thank you so much..:)

Being Pramoda... said...

Hi Diana, thats so true..;)

Being Pramoda... said...

Hi Yamini, thanks soooo much sweetheart..thats so wonderfully said..especialy last lines..:)

very matured u r..:)

Being Pramoda... said...

Hi Nivedita, thanks a ton!!! best wishes to you..:)

Hemanth Potluri said...

every statement explained so beautifully ...u have done an nice work there elaborating things in life ...

hope ur fever is gone and everything is ok now :)..take care..have an awesome week ahead ..

urs..hemu..

The Idle Brain said...

I have no words! Did you pen those lines?

Being Pramoda... said...

Hai Hemanth, thank you so much...:) am so glad ..:)

Yeah..fine now..little cough is thr..:(..

Have nice time

Being Pramoda... said...

Hi Valli...

Thank you sooooooooooo much..:) yeah. i did so..:)

am very happy ..:)

Anonymous said...

good points and the details are more precise than somewhere else, thanks.

- Murk

Anonymous said...

There is obviously a lot to know about this. I think you made some good points in Features also. Keep working ,great job!

Anonymous said...

I just added your web page to my favorites. I like reading your posts. Thanks!

Being Pramoda... said...

@ Anonymous

Hello, late reply from me but thought worth mentioning a thanks for your encouragement..

Being Pramoda... said...

@Anonymous

Thanks yaa..

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