Nov 10, 2010

When a person dies, he doesn’t die alone

I heard this dialogue in a recent Bollywood movie released couple of months ago. My very first reaction was “How true!”

We all know what happens to us when one among our loved ones dies. We all know what happens to our emotional balance when such incident happens. Everything is next to what happens at the very moment. But the most important and the most killing pain of such incidents lie in the moments when we miss them again and again. Sooner the toughest truth that we badly miss the love, care, and completeness they would have brought in our lives if they are alive, encourages the agony, which unfortunately has to be fought out by ourselves!

As the title says, when a person dies he doesn’t die alone. Love, may be immortal, but the feeling that no one else can love us like the person who died makes us feel absolutely detached at times. Missing the things, what they used to do when they were alive, do make us realize the importance of such people in our lives, every single time without fail.

Every realization is important for a life to fulfill our dreams. Lets understand and move forward.

23 comments:

Ajay Kontham said...

So true.

Really a touching post.

Make me sad, when I remember the moments of love spent with them.

Anya said...

So true words !!!!!

Sapphire said...

I am a person who exhibits different facets of my personality with different people. And when a loved one dies, that part of me also is crushed to death along with that person's demise because what I shared with that deceased person, I cannot share that with any other person....I completely agree with your post

sleeping beauty said...

nice post .in these month i was not getting ur comment box i don't know why?.love u.

Saumya said...

very true...each n every person in our life has his or her own importance...n when someone is not around....we do miss his/her presence!

Siddhesh 'Ravan' Kabe said...

well i disagree if we are emotionally attached to a person we may feel emotions of the death. But time heals everything and finally what is gone is forgotten over life.

yamini meduri said...

wow...true post :) nice one di..!!!

Am back to Pune and am missing you here...come back soon di..!!

Sabi Sunshine said...

wow very emotional post but so true ...

Thanks for sharing this with us!

Love
sabi Sunshine

Jack said...

Pramoda,

Read all pending posts. Thanks for updates. We do not only miss the person who leaves us for what we shared but many a times we also have aching regrets that we could not do what we wanted to for that person due to postponing it for another time as we do not want to disturb our pseudo-busy schedule.

Take care

Komal Ali said...

I'm yet to experience that...Actually I don't want to. *shrugs*

Being Pramoda... said...

HI Ajay.. thank u for being here.. :).. it hurts when we do it..true..

Being Pramoda... said...

Hi Anya.. thank you so much..

Being Pramoda... said...

Thank you sapphire...me too belong to the same bracket..

Being Pramoda... said...

Sleeping beauty. thanks ya.. was unable to blog more..:(

Being Pramoda... said...

Hi Saumya.. thats well said..

Being Pramoda... said...

Hi Sid, may be, we get alng with time too much that makes us forget the past!!

Being Pramoda... said...

Hi Yamini thanks gal..

Being Pramoda... said...

Hi Sabi, thank you..

Being Pramoda... said...

HI Jack uncle, thats so nice of you..;)

Being Pramoda... said...

Hi Komal..be prepared for all.. be happy.

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