Dec 12, 2010

Observe & Take it Easy...


It can be easily understood if a person is listening because he wants to or he has to. At the same time, it is even easier to understand if a person is speaking because he wants to or he has to.

Observing this kind of behavior in others is easy; but stopping ourselves or controlling ourselves from behaving so is a nightmare if I’m not wrong! Many times, in fact, all most every time when we do so, we know that we are speaking or listening to someone as we just have to. Knowing it can not prevent us from doing so. Similarly, the case shall be seen the same with others. Often, people blame others for behaving so, forgetting their own lack of control on themselves at times!

There is no wrong. Many ego states dominate us from within and make us lose control. One shall try his best to reduce the frequency to the best possible level. At the same time such behavior in others must be observed and shall be taken easily.

8 comments:

Saumya said...

it is too irritating at times at the part of other person....want to ...has to....nevertheless we shud see ourselves first :)

Ellen said...

People have choices.. to be or not to be. In the same manner that it is our choice if we let it bother or irritate us. Best is served if we choose '..to understand than to be understood'.

Blessings to you and your family.
Take care.

deeps said...

the other need not or cant listen to us or do things for us all the time, in the same way, but s/he will still do coz of the 'has' thing as u say...

HaRy!! said...

Prams... long time since i visited and i wrote as well... yu never lose yur awesome touch!! that i have observed :)!! tc keep the good work... no comments on this blog mate!to understand is best!

Being Pramoda... said...

Hi saumya.. got it right..

Being Pramoda... said...

To understand is the best thing one can do.. well said Ellen..

Being Pramoda... said...

Yeah Deeps.. it happens..

Being Pramoda... said...

Hi Hary..welcome back man.. missed ur funny stuff a lot.

thank you for this comment..;) keep coming..