Dec 13, 2010

When it is the time to say Good Bye…

Doesn’t matter what reasons people have, to seek/undergo the separation, when it is time to say good bye, all the good times spent together dominate the rest.

Students undergo variety of emotions in their college lives. Right from the welcome day to the farewell day they forget everything else and just feel the pinches of student life. Be it the fight for a girl/boy, be it the competition for a rank, be it the fight for the domination, be it sports, and be it off-campus stuff, students work hard to keep their respective groups up. Towards the end, when it comes to the farewell day, many unexpected combination of faces join together to share the agony. All they remember is the best of all moments they all have had and shared.
When a husband and wife are use to have hell lot of fights, it is the most obvious that they undergo many kinds of experiences at the back of their minds. There is a reason for this; their bond is the best rated one in terms of disturbing a person on the eve of a fight. Unavoidable emotional set backs prevent them from remembering their good moments spent together when they exchange some unnecessary words. Nothing can prevent them from seeking the separation. But again, when they have to say good bye to each other, may not be visible, but believe me, they definitely feel the warmth; though that can not reunion them at the very moment!

Relations in professional life are somewhat different from the above mentioned. Though not the way how things happen among people when they work together is different, but basically the way the bonds start itself is very different. Here, bonds develop on many reasons, which are of course worthy as some people say. Some bonds develop on the basis of reporting structure, some develop on the basis of the team requirements, some on the basis of help needed, some on the basis of gossiping, some on the basis of sharing the lunch table, bla…bla…list never completes, and no one can know it enough!! Either way, people do have lots of fights, with bosses, with colleagues etc, and just want to leave the organizations for many reasons; again no one can know them enough. Nevertheless, the D-day comes here as well on the final working day. No surprise if I say the good times dominate the rest, especially when the thank you notes are being delivered.

I do not think I should mention some more situations/relations to support my opening lines of this post. I know everyone can name their own best examples. Also, I do not really have much choice than ending this post with the repetition of same lines. Here I go.

Doesn’t matter what reasons people have, to seek/undergo the separation, when it is time to say good bye, all the good times spent together dominate the rest.

12 comments:

Yamini Meduri said...

yeah and the very recent thing that i remember is the time when i had to say bye to you just yesterday...!!

I had a reason to leave..a reason for our separation...but it was not a happy thing to do at the end of such a sweet day together..!!

Yamini Meduri said...

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KParthasarathi said...

It is true when the separation is not due to fight, like in schools,colleges and offices.When we part after a bitter fight,I am not sure whether the good things would dominate.May be later when things settle down.
Thanks

An Ordinary Gal said...

ohh so true..well explained :)

Sourav C. Pandey said...

There is no detachment where there is no pain. And there is no pain endured without hatred or lying unless detachment is present too.

Well presented thoughts.

Windel said...

I agree, there are many different scenario and feelings when some collegues or peers say goodbye to each other,..that is normal, but the most pains that hurts our emotion is in saying goodbye to your beloved one.. it is very painful.

Nice one in elaborating the words goodbye friend.

Being Pramoda... said...

Hi Yamini, thats the same what i feel too.. have a nice day dear..

Being Pramoda... said...

Hey....hey....chekced it out sis.. thats so awesome and i felt soooo happy.. thanks a lot once again..

Being Pramoda... said...

Hi Partha uncle, may be! people see things with their own eyes and that is the best one can do..well said and thank you..

Being Pramoda... said...

HI ordinary gal.. thaks yaa

Being Pramoda... said...

HI Sourav, thanks man.. nice to have u back here..

Being Pramoda... said...

Thats obvious windel and very true on your part..we feel the loss..thanks for being here..