At times after having hell lot of discussions and debates on a single issue, we quite end up keeping our own argument high failing to get other person’s point or completely denying other person’s view without even trying to think about it!
Exactly such situations make us think whether I’m not getting their point of view or they are not getting mine!
Tough one to think and the toughest one to accept the fact that your point is not even considered, easily discarding the fact that you have also done the same with the other person’s point of view.
Only question remaining at the end would be “what now?”
There are two ways…
** Forget the other person’s view and go ahead with the belief that you are right.
** Forget your own view and go ahead with other person’s as a matter of respect.
Both of the above would be landing you in trouble or both of the choices make you come out with flying colors. Choice is completely yours and up to you.
I personally recommend to go ahead with the first if you are in the decision making seat or a team lead and proceed with the second if your view is differing with that of your superior’s. I think this will make the atmosphere better or at least this can stop the further degradation. At times this can be a wrong choice too but at the end we appreciate ourselves that we have given our hundred percent!