What goes around comes around; famous quote; hence one must never be a detached observer, especially in the matters involve him in person. One must express his views without fail at right time, irrespective of the people involved or the causality to come. Voicing our choices brings the best out of us and also gets us through. I’ve been seeing people playing safe-side-taking games, so often. Reasons unknown, perhaps it could be the ‘let’s see what happens’ kind of attitude or the ‘let’s wait until it hits us directly’ kind of sort too be the culprit! Nothing of such is going to help us out in any case. One will have to face it no matter what, if not now, eventually some other time.
Never play the role of a detached observer. You will be screwed otherwise!