Think twice before concluding something as good; you will any way think much more to conclude something as bad.
We can say every reason why we do not like a person but we can hardly say reasons why we like someone specially. This is so true and so usual dialogue which suits many contexts/situations not only persons.
I don’t know how many times you would have felt this; but it happened many times with me that the things or people or situations which appeared very good to me at the start ended up on the other side altogether. On the other hand, the ones which I started with a bad feeling hardly ended up good.
I don’t want to elaborate on this much. Whenever we feel good about something we never think much about it since we get fooled by our mind and at the same time we think many times why we are feeling bad about something. Often we take better decisions with respect to bad what we feel about but we fail more than often to identify the goodness.
This is not unstoppable. Better we think twice before getting an idea on the goodness that we see or feel.