My grand pa use to say that everything in this world has got good and bad accompanied with it. I couldn’t think of any bad about a “gift” given or taken.
Now I know, Gift make us happy when received and doubly sad when the same is lost/destroyed.
Certainly, the bad pain! One must understand and console himself. we never want the gift we give pain, so as the one who gives you the gift.
PS: Hope you do not miss my previous ones posted back to back :) Cheers.